WREN ZHU, REGISTERED CLINICAL COUNSELLOR IN VANCOUVER, BC.

Healing starts with comfort

Let’s quiet the self-doubt so you can show up with more confidence and less apology.

your resilience has never been a choice

You’re so used to being the person who relies on no one but yourself, it feels like you were born this way. Lately though, you’ve been stuck between a mounting exhaustion and rising anxiety, and for the first time, you’re noticing how lonely it has been to be the person who faces all their challenges alone.

You’ve tried therapy already, only to leave disappointed, feeling like you only ended up talking in circles and not make any real progress. Medication didn’t make a difference either. Now you find yourself on your own again, but this time you’re craving something deeper, something that goes beyond the symptoms and actually goes for the heart of the matter.

I work with people who, like you, are used to getting through their problems alone, are often identified as neurodivergent later on in life, and want to undo a lifetime of shame, fear, & isolation. And just like you, are ready to move forward with self-love, and are looking for the right support to get there.

all of us are full of good parts yearning to be seen & set free

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My work is grounded in gentle comfort, compassion, and encouragement, to help you cultivate self-love as antidote to the trauma, hardships, and discomfort our lives put us through. My sessions are not a place were you fill in fear ladders or go over thought records. Neurodivergent folks are unique in how we experience in the world, and good therapy that makes meaningful progress means tailoring every step to fit you. This is a truly collaborative process where both your experiences and how you experience the world matters.

First we’ll look at how you experience the word and make sense experiences that have been confusing, distressful, or even traumatic to you. Then we’ll help you relate to your emotions in new ways, and provide you with more possibilities for relating to yourself and others. Effective healing doesn’t mean having to recall your worst memories, it means undoing the aloneness you felt when they happened.

As a fellow neurodivergent person, I know traditional therapy can be a deeply frustrating experience and leave us feeling even worse at times. Every part of our collaboration will be a validating and encouraging experience to provide space for change, regardless of how well you already know your emotions. My training in Accelerated Experience Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), an evidence-supported approach, helps to engage your body in therapy, to provide an experience beyond distress relief and embraces your complexity as well as the life experiences you carry.

let’s find the freedom to choose yourself for a change

I want to provide you with an experience that feels:

bespoke

I take on only a small number of sessions per week, as I value preserving the meaning and intentionality in my relationship with each person who chooses me as their therapist. I’m also committed to ongoing training and supervision, so I continue to provide the best possible service to you.

comforting

Comfort is indispensable in healing. Cultural obligations and trauma forces us to not question the pain and discomfort in our lives. Learning to bring comfort back in our lives is an avenue for change, and learning to take the time to care for ourselves is a necessity for healing.

deeply relational

I’m not someone you’d work with if you only wanted to practice coping strategies in a session. I believe healing is truly relational and transformative, and that it requires me to be fully in it with you, and see the good in you, no matter what you’ve been through.

Education & Licensure

Registered Clinical Counsellor - British Columbia #21205
M. Counselling - City University
B. Sc. Biochemistry - University of British Columbia
B. Sc. Computer Science - University of British Columbia

Professional Training

AEDP INSTITUTE
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy — Level 2: Essential Skills (ongoing)
Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy — Level 1: Immersion
Creating Affirming Spaces for Autistic and VAST Clients

International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy — Level 1
Emotionally Focused Therapy — Foundations

Psychotherapy Networker
Clinical Trauma Professional — Working With the Neurobiological Legacy of Trauma
Clinical Trauma Professional — Treatment of Complex Trauma and Dissociative Disorders
Internal Family Systems Trauma Treatment Program
Affirming Neurodiversity with Strengths- and Abilities-Based Interventions for Autism
Strength-based Interventions to Thrive with ADHD from Childhood to Adulthood

Others
Social Rhythm Therapy

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Counselling With Wren

Specialized counselling services for anxiety & depression, neurodivergence, and trauma, available in-person in Vancouver and online across BC.

Contact

counsellingwithwren@gmail.com

209-2150 Western Parkway, Vancouver, BC

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As an uninvited guest on stolen, ancestral territories of the xʷməθkwəy̓əm (Musqueam), Skwxwú7mesh (Squamish), S’ólh Téméxw (Stó:lō), Səl̓ílwətaʔ/Selilwitulh (Tsleil-Waututh), I commit myself to the continued work of assessing and responding to the ongoing impact of colonization.